What NOT to Buy at the Drugstore – CBS MoneyWatch.com.
Interesting thoughts. However, I think this, as with most retail, varies among geographical locations.

What NOT to Buy at the Drugstore – CBS MoneyWatch.com.
Interesting thoughts. However, I think this, as with most retail, varies among geographical locations.
Posted by RoniLynn on October 8, 2011
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Remember 10th grade biology class? Studying cell division under microscopes? Understanding chromosomes, cell membranes, DNA, mitochondria and cytoplasm? Do you remember any of it? Yea, neither do I.
Mr. Jones, my 10th grade biology teacher, tried mightily to impart some of his wisdom, but we just weren’t hearing it. My class was after lunch so therefore my attention span waned quite a bit. My friends and I were really more concerned about who sat next to each other in the cafeteria and, horror of all horrors, why Thomas, my 10th grade boyfriend was sitting with *gasp* his ex-girlfriend! My mom taught biology and you would think that with that kind of influence I would have scored better in science on my college aptitude test, but I didn’t. Obviously, science wasn’t my best subject; it wasn’t my worst, but not my favorite either. However, the past few weeks I have anxiously, academically, devoured any information I could get my hands on regarding cell mutation. I know that’s a weird and random subject and never did I think it would be one of extreme fascination for me. 
However, since my mom’s last doctor’s appointment, cell mutation is all I’ve been thinking about. My mom recently had an appointment at UAB (University of Birmingham) Cancer Center at Kirklin Clinic. Her primary care physician in Louisiana referred her to UAB, mainly because it’s located in Birmingham, where I live and it’s an easier drive than M.D. Anderson in Houston. And also UAB is an award-winning medical facility with miraculous stories to tell. Though my mom has been to M.D. Anderson several occasions, we felt it was time for a fresh perspective. Besides, mom told her primary care physician she wasn’t ready to give up hope, even though her oncologist told her “We’ve exhausted all options”…like my mom was gonna accept that. Ha!
So, after much preparation to get my parents to my house 5-6 hours from Louisiana (thanks to my uncles and aunties), we loaded up early the next morning after their arrival and headed downtown to UAB. Of course I drove since I know the city and knew where we had to go. I was nervous and a little bit irritable and rightly so. We didn’t know what to expect at UAB. And quite honestly, I expected the calm, cool doc with the Puerto Rican accent (he resembles Ricardo Montalban aka “Mr. Roarke”, but with a mustache) to smoothly tell my mom her time was VERY limited here on Earth. I expected him to say go back home because she’s wasting his time. But that’s not what he did. Instead he thought that it was interesting and quite miraculous that mom, who was diagnosed with Stage IV lung cancer in 2008 was still on this beautiful Earth. Even though the cancer had spread to her bones and brain in the last six months, she was still quite aware and optimistic. Even “Doc Rourke’s” nurse, a soothing and affable, curly red head, enthusiastically bobbled her head up and down at the fact that mom was doing well considering. I started to feel like mom was some kind of experiment and that maybe one day someone would write an article about her. If nothing else, maybe someone can learn something from mom’s case? “Doc Rourke” saw in the medical history where mom had smoked for most of her adult life, but she had been cigarette-free for over 15 years. That alone extended her life for more years than if she had still been smoking. After tons of questions and reviewing previous chemo and radiation treatment schedules, Doc provided a tiny, tiny sliver of hope.
Like a small slice of sweet potato pie, his words were just enough to satisfy us.
He said that he didn’t want to get our hopes up, but he wanted to examine my mom’s original cells from her first biopsy. He wanted to see if she had the anaplastic lymphoma kinase (ALK) gene. He’s is essentially doing genetic testing on her cells. If we broke it down like 10th grade biology, he basically wanted to know if her cells were mutated, funky-looking, weird. A mutated ALK gene potentially causes certain types of cancers. IF (big IF) she does have this mutation, he wants to set her up with the newly-approved drug, crizotinab (brand name Xalkori). The FDA just approved the Pfizer-made drug in August 2011. This drug works by blocking the ALK gene, though eventually the cancer could become resistant to the drug.
Just two weeks before my mom’s appointment I had just read about this drug and how it had produced excellent results in those who had been a part of the trial. Never did I expect that mom MIGHT be a candidate for the drug. So, ok, let me get this straight. If mom has abnormal cells, Doc wants to put her on this drug that, so far, has produced exceptional results in patients who had no other options remaining, like mom. IF.
The American Heritage Dictionary describes mutation this way: A change of the DNA sequence within a gene or chromosome of an organism resulting in the creation of a new character or trait not found in the parental type; The process by which such a change occurs in a chromosome, either through an alteration in the nucleotide sequence of the DNA coding for a gene or through a change in the physical arrangement of a chromosome; A mutant.
Did you get all of that? Yea, basically, we’re waiting to find out if the ALK gene has caused mom’s cancerous cells to be like teenage mutant ninja turtles. Now, it’s a very rare mutation. Only about 7 percent of individuals with non-small cell lung cancer have this kind of mutation and it’s really only found in non-smokers or very light smokers. Mom wasn’t a heavy smoker and given my mom’s history and her successful response to all previous treatments, they felt it was worth a shot. Doc didn’t have to try this or even put forth any extra effort. But at this point, we have nothing to lose; it’s not gonna hurt to try. 
So now we wait. Doc had to request the cells from the original facility that performed mom’s biopsy. On October 17, mom is coming back to Birmingham for a day full of tests and scans. On October 19, she has a follow-up appointment with “Doc Roarke” and then we’ll find out if she is a candidate for crizotinab. At first I didn’t think I could deal with waiting. But now, waiting has been a blessing because we’re taking this time to enjoy the small moments. Granted, she’s had some challenges in the last few weeks and each day is a different set of challenges. But she’s surrounded by lots of love and support and for that I’m grateful.
I’m still learning about ALK mutations so my apologies if my 10th grade explanation isn’t quite as scientific or lacks specific information. Remember, I wasn’t always paying attention in class when I should have been.
Posted by RoniLynn on October 8, 2011
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There was a time when I read books as often as I ate french fries (that would be all the time). However I would say that in the years since joining Facebook and finally Twitter, my attention span is shorter than a baby’s pinky toe. I mean, I LOVE books. So much so that I’m too old school to EVER think about buying an ELECTRONIC BOOK! THE HORROR! I admire my friends who can read a book or books on a flat boring looking device and yet they still seem to be enthralled by the subject of choice. But, I LOVE going into a book store, touching the spines of the books and skimming the bargin bins.
But in comes Twitter and the ten-word explanation of the day’s happenings. That’s all I need to quench my thirst for knowledge. Is that shallow of me? Am I wasteful because I continue to buy books that I haven’t finished reading or yet even STARTED reading?
Right now there are FOUR unfinished books in arm’s reach of my bed…the other six books are buried in a basket (under a few magazines, journal, a Birmingham News from two weeks ago and some more magazines.
I’m a knowledge nut. There, I said it. But how can someone who has ALWAYS loved books be unable to FINISH a book? What’s wrong with me? I’m trying to find someone or something to blame because this just isn’t like me. How did I go from reading several books in a few weeks to barely reading half a book in three months?? Lack of time? Busy work days? Short attention span?? Hmmmm…
The book The Help is staring at me…it’s begging me to pick it up. I want to read it BEFORE I go see the movie. That great, historically-rich The Warmth of Other Suns is torturing me. I long to touch it and pick it up and soak up the history of the great migration. I would love to sink my teeth into Harlem but why even start? All I’m gonna do is read three pages, put it back down, pick up my iPhone and check Twitter for the latest review about a the next great book. Where did my attention span go and how do I get it back? So, um, hit me up on Twitter and let me know what you think.
Posted by RoniLynn on September 17, 2011
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I just returned from a trip to Louisiana to visit my mom and dad. While there we had to admit my mom to the hospital. As a diabetic with heart disease, who just happens to have cancer, so many different things seem to work against each other with my mom that it’s difficult to figure out what could be affecting her moods or health on any given day. They finally figured out that her blood sugar level was so high (over 500) that she was confused, staggering and also eating everything she could put her hands on. It was the steroids that boosted her sugar level and those steroids along with meds to increase her appetite were the culprits. Once they admitted her, they were able to get her stable and also gave her blood because she was anemic.
God’s timing is evident in everything we do. Two days prior to my going home, I couldn’t sleep for two nights and I had a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach. I didn’t like the way my mom sounded on the phone, disoriented, but aware of her surroundings, somewhat. I chose, at the last minute, to drive 5 1/2 hours home, unannounced. I’m so glad that I did. I was able to see for myself what was going on and needless to say I became worried. Just a day before the oncologist told my parents that they had exhausted all options. Mom didn’t want to hear that. God knew that I needed to be home. Monday morning, as I was half-way preparing to drive back to Birmingham (I said half-way because 70% of me wasn’t quite sure it was a good time for me to drive back), my mom became jittery, nervous and scared and the insulin she took wasn’t brining her blood sugar levels down. That’s when we drove to the ER and from there she was admitted.
God knew I needed to be home. He knew that being home was where I needed to be and I was there at the right time. The magnitude of what that means really hasn’t hit me. How else can one explain it? No one asked me to come home and I didn’t plan it. I just knew I had to go. We’re hoping she gets out Thursday, but we don’t want to rush it. I’d rather she stay as long as necessary. For now, she sounds so much better and she speaks with such clarity. Truly a blessing.
In the meantime, mom doesn’t want to give up. She’s not ready. And I want her to dictate her path on this long, tough journey. Whatever makes her comfortable, we will do. Besides, God’s timing (and my gut) will let us know what to do next.
Posted by RoniLynn on September 15, 2011
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My loves: Dallas Cowboys, writing, laughing at silly stuff, watching “Rickey Bobby” over and over again, fantasy football, spicy food, all things Apple/Mac other nerdy stuff. I can also make a mean margarita.
The rest of the time I’m helping my mom fight her three-year battle with LUNG CANCER. I don’t know why I put it in ALL CAPS. I think what’s more frustrating is the stigma attached to this disease. My mom was a smoker. Ok. Got it. She got hooked on those sticks in the 60′s when tobacco companies canvassed college campuses giving away free cigarettes. Back then, it was the norm. But once you’re hooked, you’re hooked. Many of my friends never realized my mom smoked…our house, car, clothes, NEVER smelled like cigarettes. How was that possible? Well, she wasn’t ‘out’ with it. I think she was secretly ashamed and she knew she should stop. But how?
That was her only vice. My mom didn’t drink, didn’t curse and was and still is a faithful member of the St. John Missionary Baptist Church. She got up faithfully at 5 am, sometimes, 4:30 to cook a hot breakfast for me and my dad, then she went off to a full day of molding young minds, teaching them biology and the ways of life. And then she came home, cooked dinner and helped with homework. And in between she snuck in a cigarette now and then. Guess what? My mom quit smoking in 1996 after having a minor heart attack. More than 10 years later, after smoking her last cigarette, the damage reared it’s ugly head. Watching my mom go through this is painful. She has always been faithful, loving, supportive and giving. Now I can only hope that her remaining time on earth is peaceful and comfortable. She is existing and functioning…still washing clothes, paying bills and taking daily walks with the help of a little bright red walker/stroller. But for how long?
NO ONE deserves this. NO ONE. Now…it’s up to me to figure out how to make sure no one else has to endure this pain.
Posted by RoniLynn on September 11, 2011
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On today, September 11 (a day that forever changed how we trust, how we live and how we think), I decided to use the writing below as my first post on my new blog. I wrote this a few months ago, May 30, 2011. As I figure out the blogging world, I will share more about who I am and what I’m all about…little by little.
Gratitude is the best attitude. With all of the recent tragedies involving Mother Nature, we’ve all been tested and we’ve all asked the question WHY. What I always notice in the ‘after’ interviews with those who have survived the tornadoes and floods and wildfires…they all say, “at least we’re alive” or “we have each other”. It’s in those moments we think about how grateful we are…grateful to be alive. No one thinks about the computer or the car or the brand new dining room table you just bought. Everyone is just GRATEFUL to be alive. No, you don’t know what’s going to happen next, but you are thankful that your husband/wife/child/grandchild is standing right next to you or at least survived. You know if you have each other you can get through it together. If your loved one had not survived, the computer or the new table wouldn’t have much meaning anyway.
I suppose God wants us to live the ‘everyday grateful’, EVERY day. I try to do that, but I don’t always succeed. I see others who struggle and I see those who have ailments or other problems…problems that I don’t have (even though I have my own set of issues). However, nothing is ever as bad as I think. But when I see those who are dealing with something worse, I stop. And if nothing else, I take a few seconds to close my eyes and thank God for where I am at that moment in my life.
It’s then that I “FEAR THE LORD AND FAITHFULLY SERVE HIM”. And I “THINK OF ALL OF THE WONDERFUL THINGS HE HAS DONE FOR ME (YOU)”
Let us not forget that God does for us EVERYDAY, even if we don’t have what we THINK we need or want, HE gives us exactly what we need. Be GRATEFUL and forever FAITHFUL.
Posted by RoniLynn on September 11, 2011
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